Merry Christmas to all the underprivileged Children of the worl

Merry Christmas! I wish it could be possible for everyone to be indeed merry, not just by saying it as a form of greeting but as a reminder that we are all jolly in the present circumstance(s) we find ourselves.

All over the world, there are hundreds of million Children that wont be merry this season, they wont have the opportunity to experience the excitement of the season, not by their own volition but because they are being denied the opportunity to enjoy this season.

For me, Christmas isn't a period of religious celebration but rather a period of happy gathering with family and friends, to emphasise the bond of Love, togetherness, and the spirit of Sharing amongst one another. We are all lucky to have this opportunity to have an amazing family and probably a bunch of loyal friends.

I think we need to redefine what christmas celebration should mean to us, it should be a day we aspire to make the less privileged people, especially the children, merry. We should make them feel the love and excitement of Christmas.

Here is a Merry Christmas to all the children of the world and a very big thank you to all those who will strive to make a difference 

SHE

"Hmmmmm", the remark I expect whenever I say something funny to you, lol. The rare but cute smile... I always look forward to the next one. "I can't be your dream or perfect guy, but I will always be that person striving to put a smile on your face", that's a line I used on you abt 5 years back and I still remember that day every time I think abt you. You made me fall in love with your favourite colour, coffee brown, cute stuff. There's something beautiful and interesting about you that i saw about 5 years ago and still see, don't sha ask me what it is, Lmao. I miss been able to speak with you without any worry in the world, I miss been able to gossip with you, embarrassing right?,lol. I just want the best for us. Let's live by the day and worry less of tomorrow, as long as we will always have each other.   I just finished blabbing, but as you know already, I do that whenever am speaking with or about you cos I know you understand me more than anyone else.                                                       This is for you my darling.

Finally a Legal Practitioner

Final Day of Attachment

Final Day of attachment and I can do nothing but continue to praise and thank God for all he has done for me and also to thank all the staff of Consolex Legal Practitioners for all the Positive knowledge impacted on me for the 2 month duration of the placement. Masha Allah.

Friendship: Dedicated to a Friend who is more of a Brother than a friend, on his Birthday

Would the world be a better place with keen friendship and a deep understanding of the shortcomings of one another? Would there be peace if all nations know the true virtue of friendship? Would there be lesser uprisings, chaos and crisis if We all understand and uphold the real virtue of friendship and Brotherhood? These are a few of the questions I ask myself whenever I think about the joy and bliss I feel from been able to experience true friendship and Brotherhood from A friend like no other, Muammed Lemu Salihu.

About 13 years ago, we were enrolled into J.S.S. 1 Emerald as youngsters and we became seat-mates from the moment we first spoke. We never envisaged to develop a bound this strong. We became so close that we decided we were going to be getting same grades in our school works and I can even remember Moh telling his mum he has a friend that they have an understanding to get the same grade in school works and his mum laughed at him.

This isn't a Biography so I wont go further into the story of our early days. However, I will like to state that our friendship, sacrifices, dedications, quarrels, and understanding were worth it cos they have gotten us this far with more to come from us.

Muhammed, you are a friend indeed and a brother everyone needs. If I have ever offended you, forgive me.

This is to wishing you a Happy birthday and a Long and Happy life here and in the Here-after.

Cheers to our friendship, Mate.

Knowing what to find, Culled from Deb-nife Oluwatosin

It’s better to have nobody, than to have someone who is half there, or doesn’t want to be there.
No matter how much it hurts today, don't worry because someday all the pain will just become a story you thought would never end. But it will. The pain won’t be there forever. All you need is to accept that things would never be the same again~
You can’t waste time over missing something in the past. Life changes, people grow up and grow apart, and you accept that. Yet you can’t stop thinking of how good it used to be; afraid you’d never experience it again, afraid you’ve already lived it and already lost it.
It's all about new beginnings, laying solid foundations and building strong relationships. Everything we want is in front of us~
Always remember that--TRUE Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at it destination full of hope.

Valentines Day

No one deserves The Love and Joy of Valentines day more than The Little children of this world, most especially the Unprivileged Kids. It is true that one of the major cause of A Troubled ADULTHOOD is a LOVELESS CHILDHOOD. Millions of kids all over the world, most especially in Third World Countries, have been denied all the happiness, joy, care and freedom that could be associated with LOVE. War, Poverty, Corruption, Child-Trafficking, Illiteracy, etc., have played a major role in denying Children and Adults alike what Love entails. 

Children who should be revelling in the warmth of a happy home are wandering the streets and highways, hawking, begging and dying. We see these things everyday, Saddening. 

I would rather not go further because my heart bleeds to know many of us Adults were denied Love and care as Kids and same is still happening so many years after.

Happy Valentines day to All the Children of the world, May God provide a means to find Joy, Love and Care because you deserve the best.

Letting Go culled from Deborah Monebi's Blog

Letting go…

Not only were Sandra and Grace best of friends, they also happen to be each other’s confidant.Life for both of them were completely different,Sandra was born into so much affluence,she had the love and care from her very educated parents .Grace on the other hand was abandoned by her parents,a good Samaritan saw her and took her to a government orphanage. She lived with so much criticism,rejection,and abuse in the orphanage.She never stopped wondering why her parents left her .

Sandra and Grace paths crossed in the university,and instantly they took to each other.They were often termed ‘twins’ by their close friends, they spent and shared most moments together and like every other young person, they found love in their undergraduate years.Unfortunately ,Sandra was jilted by the guy she was supposedly engaged to. Months passed,grace watched her friend change from the once lively young lady to a moody  and depressed person.Time they say heal wounds,that’s what grace thought,but she was wrong.

Five years later,grace is now married  with kids to her long term lover ,but  her friend’s life seems to be taking a downward spiral.One afternoon while having lunch together,Sandra  said  ‘’ I don’t seem to get it,I work so hard ,try my best,yet the management complains about my attitude,they are not even thinking of getting me promoted,and as for my relationship status…..i really work so hard to love and make it work,but it’s  not working.it’s either I call it quit,or the guys do’’

In a very soothing voice, Grace replied’’ all you just have to do ,is to let go…let go of all your anger, resentment and all that.’’ If you let go a little, you will have a little peace, if you let go a lot ,you will have a lot of peace.

Just like Sandra and grace,we have all been hurt by another person at some point or the other, we were treated badly,hearts were hurt,and trust was broken.while the pain is longer,sometimes,the pain lingers for too long.we relive the pain over and over and have a hard time letting go.we get trapped in a cycle of hurts and anger ,and miss out on the beauty of life.

The ability to achieve forgiveness and let go of past hurts is one of the most critical challenges many of us face  on the road  to attaining personal peace and happiness.Forgiveness does not mean you are erasıng the past,or changıng what has happened.It does mean you are letting go of anger,pain ,and you are moving on to a better place.Letting go is part of our growth process.we cannot move on to new while continuing to cling on to old.By embracing forgiveness,you embrace peace,love ,gratitude and joy.

It’s not easy ,but you can learn to do it.

‘’Don’t let today’s disappointments cast a shadow on tomorrow’s dreams’’

Remember this words and let them linger "All you just have to do ,is LET GO…let go of all your anger, resentment and all that. If you let go a little, you will have a little peace, if you let go a lot ,you will have a lot of peace."

Holding on

strange but am holding on. Am gonna raise up my head like i have got no pains and walk around with a smile on face like i know no pain. Damn I miss you but i wont say a word. Head up, shoulder squared, chin up, smiled glued on the face. *blabbing*