Longshot

Today was a test of courage, strength, believe, trust, dedication, faith and indeed Love. We almost lost it all, I almost gave up as well but something stirred in me and made me realise letting it all go wasn't a right decision to make. If there is one lesson I learnt tonight, It is that "In the face of adversity, remain strong for your partner even if things seem bleak, hopeless and uncertain. Moments like these makes relationships fail but it is also moments like these we all need to stay strong and stubborn even in the face of adversity.

I made a difficult decision today even when I thought there is nothing more I could have done, but deep down inside I knew and know I made the right decision, not for me, or her but for us; and I hope she remembers to thank me someday, lol. Who ever said relationships are beds of Roses? This is worth fighting for and we shall soldier on with each other's shoulders there to soak away out tears when need be.

I reaLly don't know why am writing this because I have never been one to make my private life public. However, I believe if you are reading this, its because I want you to know and learn that Love is worth every atom of your strength if you must fight for it and trust me when I tell you this "Everything you fight for will always be cherished by you"

I hope someday I will blog about this again and say "I won the War and dominated the battle" and I hope the tears welling up in my eyes at this moment will someday be sheared as tears of "Triumphant Soldier of Love and all it stands for"

Excuse my mistakes because this isn't a preconceived article, it is an emotional out-poor that couldn't be edited or restructured. Don't forget something "Work hard if You really Want it"

TRIBUTE TO NASH

This is a tribute to a person I don't know much about but I have come to wish she didn't pass away because someone special to me is devastated about her death.

There is nothing as mysterious as seeing a young, pretty, ambitious and talented person die prematurely without living up to half of her potential. Then imagine this young and Lovely Lady passing away unannounced; there is nothing more pathetic.

4 days ago, Nash laughed and chatted with a dear friend of hers and they even made plans for lunch the next day. But it never happened, she passed away later that night. How sad that to know to know your dear friend passed away a few hours after being with her.

I don't know Nash, but I can infer she is an amazing person from the way she has been mourned and remembered. Someone special to me has been crying and mourning about the demise of this lovely lady because she was a dear friend.

When young people die, I feel the world has lost another potential star, another potential talent, another potential leader, another potential hero or heroine. It feels so strange like a blanket of cloud has covered an already grey sky. It seems so unfair but who can question God?

Its not the death of a Loved one that pains, its the overwhelming fact that we can't talk to them nor hold them nor laugh with them nor see them or do the things we used to do with them, ever again. That is so difficult to accept, its the hardest and most depressing fact of all.

Nash, may God give you the peace that we struggle daily to get on earth, may he grant you eternal rest, may the angels welcome you with open arms and may your soul rest in perfect peace.
May God grant her family and friends the fortitude to bear the loss and the inner strength and peace to know she is in a better place.

Tribute to The Fallen Heroes

At about this same time, 8:47am, on the 17th of September 2006 ( exactly 5 years ago), about 10 Officers were hugging their families goodbye, hoping to be gone for only a few days. Goodbye honey, they said to their wives; goodbye darlings they said to their children; see you all soon they told them all.

Some hours later, those goodbyes became FINAL goodbyes. How strange life blows could be. A very pathetic and sad day it could have been for the loved ones of the departed souls.

5 years on, here we are remembering them, with sorrow, a heavy heart, saddened heart, but despite all these, we will still endeavour to have a smile on our faces because of the impact they had while still being in our midst. They will always be remembered.

My Friend and Brother, Muhammed Lemu felt the pain of loosing his loving father in that plane crash, May you always have reasons to smile and May God exit any possibility of sadness in your life and that of your family.


Signed KAY

Love and Likeness

Love and Likeness – an encompassing difference

The first thing that springs to mind is “What is Love?”, but the rhetorical question to put the question to rest is “Is LOVE definable”. Basically (to my understanding), Love is unfathomable. This is so because people have different perspective about what love entails.

I won’t discuss what my own perspective of love is, so as not to upset your own view about the term itself (hahahaha). However, it will be so cool to ask yourself if love does really exist. Does it?

Don’t worry; you don’t have to tell me, I already know what you think about it. You are right; whatever you have in mind is correct. Am serious, I know what you think about love, and am telling you you are right.

To some, Love is only fictional and only exists in the spiritual realm, so cannot be interpreted as a feeling between human.  I will expatiate on this view. They ask, Can you Love a person the way you Love your Omnipotent God or can you have a feeling so immense that nothing can come between you and your love?

Food for thought....

Left or Right

To go Left or Right, what to do is what has got me thinking. When life puts you at any point, you have got to decide what direction you wanna follow. its like been on a cross road and you have to decide what direction you have to follow.
Am about getting to that kind of cross road, and the question am asking myself is Where do I go, TO GO LEFT OR TO GO RIGHT?

Love

 I never knew Love could feel this way, its like light in the darkness of an abyss, like tree of olive in the desert. you smile without been prompted, you think about each other without even knowing what you are doing, its the best feeling ever.

Little Things

I love details. I believe every little thing, said, done or appreciated means a lot in every given relationship. Over the years Ladies tend to think that only they deserve to be told sweet things, to be shown attention,  or needs to be appreciated more et al. But that is totally wrong, guys also have egos, and we hate to show things we dont think or those feelings we feel wont be appreciated by the opposite sex. I love it when a lady does simple things like sending me unexpected sweet messages, whispering sweet and lovely things into my ears, calling me to say I miss you and hanging up, wink at me when we are in the midst of people, etc. SIMPLE THINGS MATTERS.

I bet everyone will agree with me that relationships will be more interesting and meaningful with more details. Try this lilttle things and see what happens

Little Things

I love details. I believe every little thing, said, done or appreciated means alot in every given relationship. Over the years Ladies tend to think that only them deserve to told sweet things, to be be shown attention, needs to be appreciated more et al. But that is totally wrong, guys have egos too, and we hate to show things we dont think or we feel wont be appreciated by the opposite sex. I love it when a ladoes simple things like sending me unexpected sweet messages, whispering sweeand lovely things into my ears, calling me to say I miss you and hanging up, wink at me when we are in the midst of people, etc. SIMPLE ThINGS MATTERS.

I bet everyone will agree with me that relationships will be more interesting and meaningful with more details. Try this lilttle things and see what happens

Day 2 as a blogger

Ok, I really dont know what am gonna be blogging about.....hmmm....what is gonna be...(thinking)....ok. Am gonna be talking a lil about myself.

Well, I am young Aspiring Lawyer who is currently at Law school (Nigerian Law School, Yenagoa Campus), and will be called to the Nigerian Bar next year November (God willing). I attended Igbinedion University, Okada and graduated in july, 2005. Before then, I graduated from Command Secondary School, Jos. I sometimes which i could turn back the hand of time and go back to my secondary days so as to be able to experience the awesome days of secondary school.

Am in love with a lot of stuffs, notably: music, movies, politics, ladies ( not what you might think though, lol.), books (a lot), history and hey, I so much love FASHION. Its something that interests me a lot, thanks  to someone special to me I ave been able to learn somethings about Fashion and am definitely going to learrn more. I like it when people are creative and inspiring and expressive, it tickles my being to know you can create something out of your imaginative. Lmao, i guess am just ranting

Let me stop here for a while, am definitely gonna be posting more about me soon. I hhope you get to know me and understand te kind of person I am and the kind of CHARACTER I will like to turn out to be in LIFE'S OWN BOOK.

FULLSTOP

My first Blog

This is so gonna be interesting, I presume. Am kinda excited about blogging and been able to express myself in a different way, aside from using other social networks, like Facebook and Twitter. I just hope y'all enjoy it. Watch out for more from me.